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  • The Annie B Chronicles: “Mabuhay, Dubai!!!!”

    The Annie B Chronicles: “Mabuhay Dubai!!!”


    Marilyn B

    “Welcome to Dubai Annie B!” Dizzizit!  The moment I been waiting for – to see the city of the promised land – where taxis are not named “Bulaklak”,”Rocalex” or “New Rocalex” anymore, where all places are air-conditioned and people live in condominiums – okay, flats – and opportunities are everywhere, where sky’s the langit!

    “Mabuhay, I am Athena Daffodil Batobalani from Orion, Bataan, Philippneeeeessss!!!”

    Dressed in my Marlyn Monroe outfit, me and my cousin Froricel arrived at Deira City Center, which reminded me of SM Megamall.  I can’t wait to shop! But of course, I need to get a job first.  So window-shopping muna….

    I’m amazed with all the handsome men around me – locals who look like Richard Gomez and Ian Veneracion, Europeans that looksalike of Brad Pitt, and Indians and Pakistans mala Christopher de Leon and of course, other Arabs that remind me of John Spainhour … Come to Mama, my dear Papas!!!

    Later on, my cousin’s suitor, Prakash, joined us for dinner in Chili.  Prakash is weird.  He kept shaking his head all the time.  He can’t seem to get satisfied.  “Are you ok?”  He swings his head….”Do you want some fries?”  Swings his head but goes on to finish the fries in my plate…”You’re really hungry, noh?” swing his head again.  “Are you joking my leg?!!!”  swings his head again…”Hay whatever you say so!”

    After dinner, we went for a joy ride.  My jaws dropped as I saw the high-techness of Dubai.  Well…well… well…look what do we have here.  The skycapers along Sheikh Zayed Road are amazing – like Makati times ten… parang… New York! I felt like I am in a movie.  “Wooooowwww!!!!”  Haneep!!!  Shocking!!!”  I can’t find the words to describe Dubai.  I was also witness the fantastic luxury place of them all – the Burj Al Arab!!!” My cousin told me that it is 7-stars hotel.  I can’t believe it because I only know 5-stars hotels in Makati.  And the shape – it looks like a space ship from Star Wars!!!”

    Then we drive around Jumeirah, which is like Forbes Park. So full of big mansions!  Unlike in Manila, they light up their houses very brightly – maybe to scare the Akyat Bahay Gang here.  On the road, I also saw the sports cars – Perari, Porsh, Lamborgenie – they have it all here!!!  Next time I need to have non-stop Kodakan with all the cars, the buildings and houses around Dubai.

    Then we went to Jules Bar – sossy place with lots of kabayans and other lahi.  I was so surprised because the bands are Pinoy. The place was so crowded, standing room only.  My cousin ordered Bullfrog. I liked it but I miss Gin Pomelo.  They don’t have it there.  The place was very full of fun – everyone was having a good time!

    After we finished our drinks, we moved to another bar – this time a Pinoy kind.  We arrived in Ratsky’s – I’m so glad they also have a branch here.  This way I won’t get homesick.  The place was jampacked with Pinoys.  I noticed there is no dress code. Most of our kabayans were dressed in basketball jerseys, shorts and tsinelas – how comfy!  I felt overdressed of course – as always.  The bar’s band sang more Tagalog songs.  Most of their repertua were from Bon Jovi, Celine Dion and Aegis. I get sentimental whenever I hear….”Heto ako, basang basa sa ulaaaaannn!!!!”

    Ahh, painful memories from the past.   Who cares?  Everything is all spilled milk under the bridge.  I am now in Dubai – and soon, my dreams will about to be true.  I am after all, a woman of the world nowadays – ready to conquer the world under the tips of my finger in my hands, where I can have my cake and bake it too… Dubai, here I am…are you ready for Annie B?!!!

    Do you know how Annie B ended up in Dubai?  Read it here –

     

  • Girl, Please! Nonsense Women Say

     

    Ok let’s be honest here.

    Women are fantastic, intelligent, magical creatures of light and love. Well, most of us anyway, most of the time. As fabulous and magnificent as we can be, there are times when women say and do the wrongest things – myself included! I’ll be the first to admit that as a woman, I say a lot of things that men probably find absurd. It’s not as if I do it intentionally. I don’t exactly go out of my way to complicate things for the opposite sex. It’s just that our minds are wired differently, in as much as our role in the society is different than the guy’s. It is almost as if women have their own language, a hidden culture of implied complexity and severity, and it’s the job of men to decode us.

    Let’s not get into the why of it, as we may never end. It’s a girl thing, k?

    At any rate, it certainly wouldn’t hurt for us women to do what we can to help the men in our lives understand us better. God bless ‘dem boys; they stick with us despite our occasional nonsense. Here’s a quick list of some of the ridiculous things that women sometimes say or do.

    1. “Nothing’s wrong, I am fine!”

    OMG this is such a classic line! I am not sure how many times I have said this in my life but seriously guys, take a hint. When we girls repeatedly say that there is nothing wrong, trust me, there is definitely something wrong. Do not ignore us. Let me say that again. DO NOT IGNORE US. Instead, ask us how you can improve our day. Also, be careful when were PMS-ing, because this will definitely lead to a loooong night of tears and bitterness. Best thing to do is to make the conversations short and sweet and just get us some chocolate, or give us a back massage. 😉

    1. “Do I look fat?”

    This is another classic girl question. Most likely, this means, “I’m feeling a little insecure at this moment, so regardless of what you really think, tell me I’m beautiful.” This question is definitely a trap, and it is definitely screaming for attention. In this case, honesty may not always be the policy. Choose the path of least resistance and just give her a compliment. It’s fast, it’s easy, and it will save you a lot of trouble.

    1. “It’s totally cool if you hang out with your ex”

    Ok first of all, if you have someone in your life, this is a big NO! Its just plain unacceptable to hang out with your past lover even if your present girlfriend says it’s ok. We don’t need to spell this out for you boys! Whatever you do, don’t hang out with your ex. God help you if we catch you.

    1. Go have fun and do whatever you want. Its ok!

    Now, this is another trap. When we say this, it really means that you should not go out but instead, just pet us and love us. I repeat, do not go out and have fun.

    1. I will get ready quickly. It will only take a minute.

    I don’t know what the problem is, but women can take forever to do anything. I seriously think men know this. Women do take forever because they put an effort with their make up, dress and accessories. Guys, when this happens, find something that you can do and just appreciate the effort.

    I know there are still various statements that we women say and the list can go on and on. But please do not hate me as we can never deny that we have said these phrases at least multiple times in our lives. I know it takes two to tango in a relationship or in a date, but always remember that we do make mistakes and it serves as a learning curve for us.

  • Of Being Single, Kiwi Crates, and Cassava Cakes

     

    By Dannabelle Gutierrez

     

    I have been single for thirteen years. Let me say that again, in case you missed it, my singleness is thirteen years old. It’s funny, because there are actual humans of the same age who are getting into relationships and here I am, tap-tap-tapping away on a keyboard, sipping my tea. A few weeks ago, I was out to dinner with two very good friends of mine and their significant others. When youʼve been single for as long as I have, third-wheeling or fifth-wheeling is nothing new. What was particularly special about this certain dinner was that eight years ago, those particular friends were my “single-since-birth-I-did-not-even-realize-single-since-birth-was-still-a-thing-that-actually-happens” friends, not only that, but they were also the “older-than-me-but-still-single-which-makes-me-feel-like-itʼs-okay-to-be-single” friends, and now they are both in what seem to be very serious relationships. Four-years-ago-me would have viewed this as a tragedy. Four-years-ago-me would have taken this as a blow from the universe and would have questioned every single thing about her life. Back then, I would have cried and wondered at the very dramatic conclusion that I was the last single girl in the world.

     

    Now? Well, now, I wonder why I ever cried about the fact that I am single. I mean, so I’m single, so what? It’s not like my life is filled with excruciating loneliness. I mean, sure, there were some low points that would have been more palatable if I had a hand to hold and there were some high points that certainly would have been higher, if not sweeter, had I been able to punctuate it with an exclamation mark smooch from my very own wild pogi lover boy – but whatever. I have been blessed with some very amazing friends who have been with me for the high’s and the low’s. Plus, lover or no lover, bad times are still going to be bad times and good times are still going to be good times and right now good or bad, I don’t seem to have very much at my disposal, as I am either working for the job that puts food on the table or working on a project that feeds my soul. I haven’t exactly been exerting myself to find a man and let all my single girls raise their hands up and say: “And neither should you have to! Amen!”

     

    Of course, this is not to say that I have given up on the idea of meeting someone, no. I have not given up on the hope that someday, some guy is going to hold my hand through this absurdity that we call life. And yes, I have made many attempts at meeting men. There were Tinder attempts, and there were meeting-a-friend-of-a-friend attempts, I mean these aren’t very valiant efforts, but with my schedule, this is about as valiant as they are going to get. I mean on top of everything, a busy girl still needs to sleep, do her laundry, and you know, shop, and meet her friends.

     

    Today was one of the very seldom moments that I am actually free enough to meet a friend for coffee to catch up. We decided to meet at a cafe in Deira at 4pm and since I had a few hours after church, I decided to do my groceries at Carrefour before meeting my friend. Now, let me tell you something about doing your groceries when you’re hungry — Don’t. Especially, when the supermarket happens to have special deals on everything, because you will eventually leave the store with a ten-dirham crate of kiwis, among many other things. And really, what are you going to do with a crate of kiwis?

     

    I managed to finally get to the cafe ten minutes late, carrying two big environmental sacks of groceries, and frothing apologies to my friend for one, being late; and two, for being late and looking like a ‘Kabayan Kakanin’. Don’t act like you don’t know what I’m talking about. You see them all over the Dubai, carrying Carrefour bags with apologetic smiles offering you sinful ‘kakanin goods’ on the down low – the very ones who offer you those sweet delectable cassava cakes, and you know you shouldn’t, because you’re on a diet, but it’s ten dirhams, you argue with yourself, and you’re helping a kabayan out, so you give in to buying that glorious 2000-calorie goodness.

     

    Anyway, after a few hours, a cup of coffee, a fruit cup, and lots of laughs later, my friend had to leave for another engagement, while I chose to stay and think about what I was going to write for this article. I mean, it’s about being single; the stories I could tell on this topic are endless. So there I was, staring off into the horizon, making ‘muni-muni’, and getting lost in my thoughts as most writers do, when lo and behold, a ‘Kabayan Kakanin’ comes by with his bags of temptation. And I know him, because I’ve bought from him before, so I smile and say “Kamusta, Kuya?”

     

    “Ati, maglambing lang aku sa’yu, ati,” he said.
”Naku, Kuya, ang dami kong bitbit, saka na ako bibili sayo ha? Next time na lang,” I replied.

     

    “Sigi na, ati, maglambing lang aku sayu,” he said again as he came closer and sat right next to me, “Ati, sigi na. Maglambing lang aku sayu. Akin na ang kamay mo.”

     

    I’m thinking, What? Kamay ko? Baket? And before I could even think of how to respond to this in a way that wouldn’t offend him, he took my hand and started massaging it while saying, “Meron pu akung biko, suman, may tikuy pu, empanada…”

     

    Mind you, at this point, I was still trying to bring myself back to reality after getting lost in my own thoughts of writing, so I’m looking at my hand and I’m looking at Kuya who was still massaging my hand and reciting the contents of his kakanin sack, “…bibingka, turun, may pichipichi. Sigi na ati, maglambing lang aku sayu, plehs.”

     

    And I’m thinking, What? How? Who? What??? How did I manage to get myself in this very absurd and awkward situation? And how do I get out of it? I mean, I know I hoped for someone to hold my hand through this absurdity that we call life, but I don’t think this was exactly how I wanted it to go. Nope. Not like this, ‘plehs’, not like this. And so I did the only thing that seemed right, I resignedly said, “Okay sige na nga kuya, pabili na nga ng isang cassava cake.”

  • About Pinays Take Charge

     

    The Pinays Take Charge campaign is an advocacy project of Illustrado in line with the Women of Substance endeavor created to contribute to Filipina empowerment. The project seeks, not only to create a more positive image for Filipinas in the region, but also to assist in addressing problems and concerns relevant to Filipinas.

     

    The Pinays Take Charge Guidelines have been written to provide simple guidance specific to prevalent Pinay issues in the region – to inform, educate and alert Filipinas to possible causes of problems. The information and provided herewith come from insights from countless Filipinas interviewed or who participated in the research of this project.

     

    To know more about Pinays Take Charge or to be a part of this movement email us at: admin@illustrado.co, or call (+971 4) 365 4543. You can also visit our website: illustradolife.com or our Facebook Pages – Illustrado Magazine, Go Pinay.

     

    Living in the Middle East

    Bear in mind that the Middle East has a totally different culture to the Philippines and certain behaviors and practices, which are considered normal or are tolerated in the western world, can get you into trouble.

     

    Some ‘simple things’ that can get a woman in trouble –

    • Chatting and smiling innocently and referring to strange males as “My Friend”
    • Accepting a ride from a stranger or going into a stranger’s flat
    • Allowing unknown males into your home
    • Dressing in clothes which are considered too revealing – i.e showing thighs (wearing shorts), uncovered shoulders, cleavage and other sensitive body parts, especially in public areas or locations where there are a lot of bachelors

     

    Did you know that these things are prohibited, punishable by law and can get somebody in jail?

    • Getting pregnant out of wedlock
    • Having a physical relationship with a man who is not your husband
    • “Living in” (cohabiting)
    • Public display of affections – kissing, etc.

     

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    Dear Empowered Filipina,

    We are fortunate to belong to a country and community where we are recognized, treated with respect and provided equal opportunities.

    However, we still have a long way to go towards achieving our full potential, especially outside our own country where we are sometimes looked at negatively, or where we can easily fall into bad situations.

    It’s time that we face our pressing issues and take control of our life.

    We invite you to take the Pinays Take Charge Pledge which hopes to inform and remind you of some simple guidelines that should help you towards success, and to avoid problematic situations.

    This is a project that hopes to contribute to the Empowerment of Filipinas around the world.

    Let us all take one step forward.

     

    Go Pinay!

    Taas Noo, Filipino!

     

     

    The PINAYS TAKE CHARGE Pledge

     

    1. My body is my own. I will take care and protect it, knowing full-well that I should not depend on somebody else to do so, or to make that decision for me.

     

    1. I will be careful in trusting others, especially strangers and strange men. I know that by befriending strangers, or putting my safety in the hands of people I don’t really know, I could be putting myself in danger.

     

    1. I will be aware of the rules and understand the customs and cultural sensitivities of my host country, and will adhere to these without fail. Ignorance is not an excuse and could land me in trouble.

     

    1. I will dress appropriately at all times. I will dress depending on the place, the occasion, the people I will meet and the environment that I am going to.

     

    1. I will be aware of my verbal and body language. I will be careful with what I say and what I do. I know that my words, actions and Filipino friendliness can sometimes be misunderstood as a sexual come-on by strange men.

     

    1. I will protect myself and fight back, whether verbally, physically or otherwise, if somebody attacks or harasses me or makes me feel threatened. I will show them that Pinays are strong and will not allow themselves to be victims.

     

    1. I will nurture myself. I know my worth and I will not settle for less than what I deserve. I will be true to myself and continue to grow my talents, my skills, and passions as I tread the path towards success and true independence.

     

    1. I will live with self-respect and will safeguard – not sell out – my values.

     

    1. I will make my own decisions and understand that whatever choices I make, I will have to be responsible for them completely.

     

    1. I will love myself, knowing that nobody else can love me as wholly and completely as I can, and that I cannot give love if I have no love.

     

     

  • Have We Truly Closed the Gender Gap?

     

    By Consul General Paul Raymund Cortes

     

    The Philippines has always been proud to claim that our society is one of the most gender equal societies in the world. We are, according to the World Economic Forum 2015 Report on Global Gender Gap, among the Top 10 countries in the world that have the least gender disparity, a distinction we have had in the past five years. Our women are privileged with as much opportunities as men. They are as educated and literate as men. They have taken top roles in business and governmental institutions. That women can occupy leadership positions in the community with almost similar likelihood as men manifests our belief in the equality of sexes.  Yet though the gap has been narrowed and arguably even closed, stereotypes and sex role obligations remain deeply entrenched. Have we, then, truly closed the gender gap?

     

    Our society delegates certain behavioral standards for men and women from the confines of our homes to the immediate community and the state. Women are expected to be homemakers while men are the breadwinners of the family. Social patterns anticipate mothers lording over homes as budget planners and executors, meal supervisors, and performers of actual household chores. Everything on parenting from child rearing to school work and activities, and even the early intellectual development of a child becomes primarily mom’s domain as she is perceived as more caring and more nurturing, and has a greater ability to empathize than dad. Home aesthetics are acknowledged as within the purview of motherhood as it is more feminine to be attuned to beauty and order.

     

    Dad, on the other hand, must bring home the bacon. Quite simply, his main task is to ensure food on the table and enough finances to pay the bills. In addition, carpentry, electricals, do-it-yourself repairs or any physical undertaking at the home is the manly thing to do. Consider scenes from films depicting dad busy tinkering with maintenance of the family car or doing his assigned outdoor chores and you get a fair picture of what we obligate men to do in the family.

     

    On the community scale, women are preferred to take on certain positions in the organizational and corporate structure because of character traits of assigned to them. It is supposedly women’s fastidiousness that makes them ideal for tasks that necessitate combing through voluminous information. Because of their apparent ability to multitask better than men, executive assistants or secretaries are mostly women. When the task is about ensuring meticulous execution of plans, we prefer women. Men, as science theorizes, tend to see to see the bigger picture and are the better sex when it comes to building and managing systems, hence, leadership roles. They are physically larger and stronger and thus, it is more acceptable for them to do more physical tasks.

     

    That women bear children while men don’t is, I believe, the most essential difference between the sexes. It is physiological. Apart from that, both men and women can take on character and personality traits we have hitherto assigned. Both can be nurturing parents. Both can take on physical roles at home and at work. Both can be tasked with administrative minutiae. Both can perform roles delegated to each other by society without fear of judgment. I will not argue with neurological science that upholds truths about how men’s and women’s brains are wired differently though I assert that both men and women can both be doting parents, can both multi-task, can both be emotional, and can both be strong and decisive leaders.

     

    Only when we believe that there exists no divergence between males and females other than physiological can we, with conviction, truly close the gender gap. When we realize that there are no societal rules on how the masculine standard is to be less loving or caring or how it is feminine is to be less aggressive and more subservient can we fully embrace the tenet that men and women are equal. We can begin by ceasing to frown at dads who opt to stay home while mom is at work or by stopping to snicker at men who earn less than their spouses. We must cease scoffing at men who allow the ladies to dabble into physical repairs at home because they are better at it. We should dismiss the idea that a dad is henpecked because his wife makes the decisions in the family.  We should get rid of the template roles fathers and mothers take on in the family. To consider alternatives to what men and women are predisposed to must not be scorned and met with disdain. Otherwise, the equal opportunities that our legislation has ensured for women and our celebration of the greater role of women in Philippine society is just lip service.

  • Filipino Abroad – It’s What I Do

    Filipino Abroad – It’s What I Do

     

    KRISTOFFER MENDOZA

    Restaurant General Manager

    II Café di Roma – Dubai, UAE

    My job

    I am a Restaurant General Manager. Being responsible for the entire business entails that, I manage operations, handle Human Resources, as well as accounting. I have been in Dubai’s food and beverage scene for more than a decade now, and this has enriched me with skills and knowledge that help me to fulfill my job.

    KRISTOFFER MENDOZA: Filipino Abroad – Dubai, UAE

    My typical work day

    My day starts with me briefing my colleagues on our daily target, tasks and updates in order for them to be fully aware and equipped with information they require to achieve what needs to be done. Then, I check my e-mail for any developments on orders, projects and reports. I inspect the whole outlet to check if everything is in good working condition, our standards are being followed and reports needed being done effectively and efficiently. Once it starts to get busy, I supervise operations. When all is well and functioning smoothly, I will then tackle my daily reports and updates on stocks and deliveries. At the end of the day, we tally all finances and provide a report to top management.

     

    Career advice

    We have all left our country to seek greener pastures. Once you are able to land a job, be the best that you can be and learn to develop yourself no matter what trade you are involved in. Be professional all the way, until your last working day. The world is very small. Who knows, maybe one day you’ll end up working for a former colleague who knows of what caliber of performance you embody.

    Filipino Abroad – It’s What I Do

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    CHARMAINE ROXAS NACUA

    Sales & Marketing Manager

    Histomer Swiss Italian Skin Care – Dubai, UAE

     

    My Job

    As the Sales and Technical Manager of Histomer exclusively distributed by JS International LLC, I am tasked to generate demand for my brand portfolio within my territory covering segments such as medical spas, beauty centers and dermatology clinics, to ultimately reach targets, while handling my clientele with the best customer service. To support my clients, I conduct monthly Histomer- Certified Classes in our office as well product knowledge refresher trainings to ensure that skin therapists and doctors are familiar with our product protocols.

    My medical background as a Physical Therapy graduate, plus my stint with Pfizer Philippines gave me an edge in mastering my products by heart and skillfully communicating the benefits of my brand target audiences of different races and backgrounds. As part of my job, I also conduct product demos and customize marketing-related events or workshops in support to spa managers and owners assuring product satisfaction on the part of my clients and their valuable customers. I also create spa offers or clinic deals to promote the spa or clinic facial services using Histomer products as per special marketing arrangements. 

    My typical work day

    I am blessed with a wonderful family; a loving supportive husband who runs his own mobile fitness and conditioning company and an adorable charming six year-old son who live in Dubai with me. So my mornings are always adrenaline-packed from 6AM – taking care of breakfast and preparing my son for school. As my work timings are flexible, I can effectively juggle my family and work responsibilities.

    I check my emails and social media accounts and spend time feeding my soul as well. Then I check my appointments and meetings in my diary. Then, off I go to visit my clients in the field and check out leads in the area. There are days where I need to conduct trainings or workshops, then, there are also times where I hope from one door to the other seeking new accounts that have certain requirements which I match up with my solution products. It is a never-ending challenge and thrill to meet new faces and see places in Dubai, Sharjah and Ajman which is my area of responsibility. The more I am exposed in the field each day, the more exhilarating it is for me.

    CHARMAINE ROXAS NACUA: Filipino Abroad – Dubai, UAE

     

    Having been in Dubai for 12 years, I have had my shares of simple yet very hard beginnings. Through the challenges, I have developed patience in everything. It was nurtured in me when I went through all the hardship, the financial struggle, the job switching, the cultural adjustment, but what sustained me and my family is our strong faith and trust to our Creator who provided us with inner strength and a winning attitude that our life’s breakthroughs are on the way and it did happen and still is happening up to the present time. Glory to God!

     

    Life advice

    I urge you my kababayans to love God, to love our families and to love our country with all our hearts and we will start seeing our inner transformation unfolding. We should appreciate our spouses and focus on loving our families despite our challenges and lastly, we should look to our country with a renewed hope, patriotism and nationalism. Our nation is great and will become greater one day, ultimately making us feel that with conviction.

    We should be proud to be Filipinos and that someday soon we will go home for good and bring our world-class expertise and talents to be utilized in building our nation together through the help of God.

  • IT’S WHAT I DO – DECEMBER 2015

     

     

    EDUARDO VIRAY

    Buying and Merchandising Manager – MEA Region

    CLARKS – Dubai, UAE

     EDUARDO VIRAY - Filipino Dubai, UAE

     

    MY JOB

    I am the Buying and Merchandise Manager of C & J Clark International for Middle East and Africa including their Turkish Subsidiary. Clarks is a British, international shoe manufacturer. Our company has over 1,000 branded stores and franchises around the world and also sells through third-party distribution. 

     

    EDUARDO VIRAY Filipino Dubai, UAE

     

     

    I am responsible for driving commercial business goals through product and merchandising strategy across the MEA region. I am also responsible for all regional product selection for our franchise partners which entails setting up their product portfolio selections every season according to market requirements and needs.  Part of my job is also analyzing market and competition and providing recommendations and insights crucial for business decision making. I also conduct regular trainings on seasonal product strategies and focuses.

     

    I was originally a Project Development Officer for the Planning Division of NEDA in Bulacan. But fate brought me to merchandise planning job in retail for which I am very thankful for. I had found my passion in fashion and worked with some of the best retail companies and brands in the Middle East, including Mikyajy where I got my foundation on merchandise planning. Thereafter I moved to Majid Al Futtaim Fashion and where I worked for 5 years – starting out as Wholesale Sales Support Manager, and then Senior Buyer for brands Juicy Couture, Jane Norman, Fat Face, Mexx and Lucky Brand Jeans. I then joined Burberry Middle East as Regional Merchant in 2012. I then briefly joined Al Tayer Group handling planning for the Men’s Department of Harvey Nichols and Bloomingdales before joining Clarks. 

     

    Apart from meeting a lot of cool people, one of the perks of my job is traveling. For the last 10 years in Dubai, the only thing that kept me sane is the fact that I get to travel to different countries almost every other month. It’s great but it’s also exhausting. But hey, no complaints, I get to travel all expenses paid! 

     

    MY TYPICAL WORK DAY

    My work day starts while I am behind-the-wheel. Driving gives me clarity. That’s when I start thinking about what has to be done during the day. I am quite an organized person, so as soon as I sit at my desk I do my priority list. I typically have meetings throughout the week, either with my general manager, our franchise partners, UK counterparts, or my assistant. 

    EDUARDO VIRAY – Filipino Dubai, UAE

     

    As a planner, I am well organized. Any deviation in the plans will be a huge headache for me. I am very keen on details. Hence, I review and analyze all reports. I manage and control pricing architecture, sales and forecasting for Clarks Shoes in the region and hence numerical data analysis and reporting is very crucial to my day to day routine. 

     

    However busy my day is, I also make sure that I have time for small chats with colleagues and friends. That provides me a boost whenever I feel drained at work. During the weekends, whenever I get the chance, I visit my friends and brunch or dine out with them. I also love to watch movies and go to the beach.

     

     

    CAREER ADVICE

    Be yourself. Be proud of being a Filipino. Acknowledge that you are a talented individual and that you can do needs to be done. Filipinos are very diligent and have an unbelievable resilience. Our work ethics are the best in the world; we have the best minds there is.   Our attitude and our positive outlook in life define the culture that we have and we must embrace that.  Living in the Middle East for 10 years has taught me many valuable things but one thing stands out – equality! In Dubai, equal opportunities are there regardless of nationality. We just have to believe that we can do it, and do it better! 

     

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    BETTY GUEVARRA

    Division Manager –Merchandise & Planning

    AL TAYER GROUP – Dubai, UAE

    BETTY GUEVARRA – Filipino Dubai, UAE

     

    MY JOB

    I am associated with one of the largest groups of company in the Middle East. My core experience is in Merchandise Planning and Buying.  As the head of a division, I have a team who supports me in achieving our division goals & KPIs.  What is really good about working in this region is that you get to work with different kinds of people from different parts of the world.  My team is quite diversified – composed of Irish, French, Moroccan, African, Egyptian, Lebanese, Sri Lankan, Indians, British, Belarusian and of course Filipinos.

     

    Apart from leading a team, I get to travel to meet the principals and top executives at the luxury beauty brands. I’m exposed to reading/reviewing legal contracts, store designs and concepts, as well as brand management.  It is my responsibility to ensure we have the right assortment of brands in the stores and we create an atmosphere where our customers feel delighted leaving our store feeling beautiful.

     

    MY TYPICAL WORK DAY

    The first thing I usually do in the morning is check my calendar then read specific folders (emails from the management) in my inbox plus go through the daily sales report. Then, I have a quick catch up with my team – we call this daily huddle.  In here we briefly share news, concerns and our priorities for the day.  In a lot of cases, my day is packed with back-to-back meetings.  After meetings, I pass on the information to my team for action.  I also have my TO DO list – often these are quite strategic so until, and when these are finalized they remain in my list.  As the division head, it is typical for me to be approached by someone either seeking help, solution or a decision, every single day.

     

    I joined this company as Administration Assistant where my role is to do what I was told to do.  With the grace of God, I reached a level that a lot of Filipinos would probably aspire for.  Currently I rank the highest amongst the Filipinos in the company.  I take the pride in representing Filipinos at the office, especially when I discuss business strategies on a quarterly basis with the top management like to CEOs, Senior Vice Presidents, Vice Presidents, and General Managers.  To be part of the Executive Team, can get very challenging. The expectations are huge and you have to be ready and prepared all the time.

     

    One of the best and most interesting tasks I do is coaching.  I realized I can motivate people and this is something that comes naturally to me.  I had a colleague who was very challenged with his previous manager, and was about to resign.  Due to restructuring, he was moved under my leadership.  I saw great potential in him – coached him regularly to ensure he achieved key milestones.  It has been 4 years since then. He has been promoted 3 times and is now one of my Seniors, confident enough to lead the division in my absence.    

     

    The best fulfillment I get is when I see someone from my team grow and be promoted – to me this is success.

     

    CAREER ADVICE

    Believe in yourself, stay hungry and don’t settle for less. Get acquainted with the kind of person you ought to be.  Don’t give up on your dreams, they are worth fighting for. It has always been my mantra to keep striving for more and often I ask myself ‘how could I have done this better?’  This will help you improve yourself.

  • Meet Consul General Paul Raymund Cortes, Dubai & the Northern Emirates

    By Rav de Castro

    Hon. Paul Raymond Cortez - Consul General, PCG Dubai & the Northern Emirates; Photo by Eros Goze
    Hon. Paul Raymund Cortez – Consul General, PCG Dubai & the Northern Emirates; Photo by Eros Goze

     

    Hon. Paul Raymund Cortes, the Consul General of the Philippines in the United Arab Emirates, did not dream of working in the Foreign Service. In fact, as a graduate of Computer Science from the prestigious Ateneo de Manila University, he thought he would be working in the IT industry. It was not until he met some Foreign Service officers during an event in the early 90’s at the Department of Foreign Affairs that he considered living his life around the world serving his country.

    Two decades later, having earned a Master’s Degree in Public Management from the University of the Philippines, taking the Foreign Service Officers’ and the Career Ministers’ Examinations and postings that have taken him and his family to live in Europe and in the USA, Consul General Cortes has become accustomed to a life of travel, wherever his job takes him.

    He shares, “Life in the foreign service has opened my perspectives to a much wider scale. It has complemented my Jesuit foundation and made me a much more compassionate and humane soul. The DFA has been very good to me and my family. It has provided us opportunities we never would have come across if not for that brief moment at the DFA 21 years ago.”

    Currently the highest ranking Philippine official responsible for Dubai and the Northern Emirates, Con Gen Cortes meets his new adventure in the Middle East with much aplomb, despite the emirates’ reputation as a challenging post owing to the size of the Filipino community here and the work that it entails.  As Head of Post, he shares that his main priorities include – his work for the Filipino community, the effective management of the sizeable consulate personnel, and together with his family, being able to understand Islamic culture.

    Hon. Con. Gen. Paul Raymond and Yasmin Cortez with family - Photo by Eros Goze
    Hon. Con. Gen. Paul Raymund and Yasmin Cortez with family – Photo by Eros Goze

    Fortunate to have a supportive family able to see the positives in a life of travel beyond the grueling process of packing and unpacking, Con Gen Cortes and his wife, Yasmin, implanted in their kids that moving from one country to another is not necessarily a process of uprooting; instead, it is a rare opportunity that shapes a human being — the exposure to many different cultures, languages, mindsets and perspectives.  The couple is very grateful that they were able to guide their sons to view moving in an optimistic light.  Thankfully, their sons are open—even eager—to reboot their lives in yet another new country.

    His new home away from home

    Moving to Dubai early this year, Con. Gen. Cortes has learned to love the city, and says, “Dubai is such a gem. Being here validates everything one has read about the city – the wealth, the glam, the lifestyle, the diversity, the rich international flavor of the place, the people, the opulence, the pomp, and of course, the heat!!“

    What he and his family love most about Dubai though, other than its thriving atmosphere is the incredible spirit of community among Filipinos that makes it easy for them to feel like Dubai is really home.  Con Gen Cortes enthuses,

    “I have always been a social animal. I thrive on people gatherings and enjoy every bit of meeting and exchanging views with everyone. I have made it a point to be a very active player in community affairs in my previous postings and intend to be so in Dubai. I would like to be engaged with community affairs and be a part of the Filipinos’ lives in the UAE.”

    Con. Gen. Cortes is proud of his heritage, and for him, being a Filipino abroad means being hardworking, adaptable, and flexible to take on any challenge. He takes pride in the work ethic and in the efficiency of Filipinos, and thinks that our sense of commitment to our professions is legendary. He also admires our sense of optimism that allows us to smile through the hard times, and more often than not, sing our hearts out no matter what problems there are.

    He himself loves to sing. Like most, if not all, of Filipinos, he considers singing as his greatest passion. He shares,

    “I have always been on stage singing for whoever and whatever occasion. Some have told me that as Consul General I should limit my singing but if this is what defines me as a person, then I take all I am as a person as factors that I must capitalize on to play the role of Consul General to the fullest. I cannot pretend to be someone else and expect to lead the Consulate and serve the Pinoy Community here effectively.”

    Beyond being a Consul General and his passion for belting out tunes, his role as head of the family is of utmost importance.  He says,

    “I have always made it clear in my mind that I am first and foremost a husband and father to our 3 boys. This is my way of keeping myself grounded and preventing myself from floating to the cloud traps of authority and power.” 

    He also adds, “The title Consul General comes with utmost obligation as our community look to our office as the prime resolver of issues, the limitless source of hope, and the repository of answers to all their concerns, legal, consular, moral, and even financial. I am not dismissing this as an outright misperception but because I am the highest ranking government official in Dubai and the Northern Emirates, I take the role of everyone’s last resort seriously.”

     

    Seeing the many faces of the world

    Hon. Con. Gen. Paul Raymond and Yasmin Cortez with family - Photo by Eros Goze
    Hon. Con. Gen. Paul Raymund and Yasmin Cortez with family – Photo by Eros Goze

    Con. Gen. Cortes has seen the many faces of the world, and through his profession, he has learned some valuable lessons.

    “We’ve seen the world and lived the lives of other people. It has made us realize that way beyond the political, economic, and geographical boundaries, we are simply all the same.”

    He believes therefore, that as human beings, what’s important for us is to belong in a community that helps each of its members to grow and thrive, and be given support and guidance.

    As the head of the Philippine Consulate in Dubai, he encourages everyone to extend their hands to lend him support so that he may perform his duties in the best way that he could.

    “To my fellow Filipinos, I look forward to meeting many of you as I undertake my role as your Consul General here. I know there is much expectation and I extend my hand to everyone who wishes to lend their expertise, their thoughts, their opinions, and views, on how we could make our community here as vibrant and productive not only for the UAE community but also for our motherland.”

    He humbly acknowledges that the Consulate does not know the answers to all of our questions, and that it may not have a ready solution to all of our problems. With that, he warmly invites everyone to be a part of the Consulate. He believes that everyone has a stake in the Consulate, and more importantly, our strength lies in our numbers.

     

  • Filipinos in Dubai: It’s What I Do

    IRIS ABARABAR
    Alterations Engineer – Emaar Properties
    Dubai, UAE

    Irish Abarabar Filipinos Dubai

     

    What do you do for a living?

    I am an architect, and I work in the customer care alterations department in a large real estate developer here in the UAE. I am involved in planning projects and site visits. I make sure that our projects are running smoothly and on schedule. I embrace my tasks so I can execute my job well, and I am lucky to work with a great team. My employer, Emaar, regularly provides us employees with trainings for personal and professional development, so we are always able to work effectively with each other.

    Irish Abarabar Pinoy in Dubai

     

    Please describe your typical working day.

    I deal with different types of people from different countries everyday. I make sure that I get all the job done in time, such as quality checks and solving client problems. I am also very proactive and I take ample time and effort to understand my clients issues so I can help them solve it better.

    Irish Abarabar

     

    Please share with us an interesting story or anecdote, anything remarkable or uplifting that has happened to you on the job.

    Being an architect is a very challenging career, and there are many highs and lows. There are a lot of things you must do, and with proper discipline, they can be done. I was hit by the global financial crisis back in 2008 where there were a few jobs available, and I was left with no choice but go back home. But I never gave up.

    The most fulfilling part was when I was re-hired by my employer when they got their business goes back on track. Now, I have already built a strong network with clients, engineers, and contractors.

    Irish Abarabar Filipino in UAE

     

    Your message to Filipinos out there.

    The key to success in your career is having the willingness to step outside of your comfort zone. No matter where you are in your career, don’t get sluggish. Recover using your willpower and determination. The reason why most of us fail is because we give up too soon.

    Always keep your career moving. Choose to lead and to inspire. The more you are able to do that, the more you will earn the trust of your employer and everyone around you.

    Once you reach one of your goals, your journey is not over. You have to keep moving. Persevere, so that someday when you look back, you’ll say, “I’m glad I did,’ instead of “I wish I had.”

     

     

    LEO VALLE BARRAMEDA
    Travel & CRM Coordinator – ART DUBAI
    Secretary – Philippine Business Council
    Secretariat Head – Ateneo’s LSE program

    LEO VALLE BARRAMEDA – Philippine Business Council

     

    What do you do for a living?

    I am the executive assistant of H.H. Sheikha Maisa Al Qassimi, and I have held this position for more than 7 years now. I am also the new Travel and CRM Coordinator of Art Dubai Fair LLC, an events company that organizes and manages some of the biggest arts and design events in the UAE, such as Art Dubai, Design Days Dubai, and Downtown Design.

    LEO VALLE BARRAMEDA – Filipino in UAE

     

    Please describe your typical working day.

    A typical working day for me starts with thinking what to wear to work. Being part of an artsy-fartsy team encourages me to be creative on what I pull out from my closet.

    Working directly with the VIP team, I usually start the day updating the database while drinking my daily dose of green tea. The rest of the day is spent on dealing with flight requests, matching hotel requirements, booking car transfers, applying for visas, and checking the Internet for deals and promos. I am maintaining three company email accounts; Outlook is my work buddy as we spend a lot of time together. Needless to say, receiving compliments and positive feedback are my inspiration to keep me going.

    Art Dubai team in Index Tower office - LEO VALLE BARRAMEDA

     

    Please share with us an interesting story or anecdote, anything remarkable or uplifting that has happened to you on the job.

    Being the only full-blooded Filipino in the team, I was very intimidated at first. On the contrary, I am warmly welcomed and now I feel my worth in the company. Glitches and challenges usually happen, but I always deal them with a smile. After all, Filipinos are known to be always happy, and I am proud to be one. I am also very lucky that I am part of a very diverse company.

    I make sure that I pay it forward to the Filipino community in Dubai. I was appointed as Secretary of the Philippine Business Council here in Dubai, and I helped establish opportunities for Filipino entrepreneurs to network and develop bilateral cooperation. I am also the Head Secretary of the Leadership and Social Entrepreneurship (LSE) Program organized by Ateneo de Manila University School of Government.

    Art Dubai team LEO VALLE BARRAMEDA

     

    Your message to Filipinos out there.

    According to Ralph Waldo Emerson, “Happiness is like perfume, you can’t pour it on others without getting a few drops on yourself.”

    Always surround yourself with good people, the thinkers and the doers, and most of all, people who see your worth. I learned to associate myself with positive friends that helped me see my own greatness and find more joy in simple things. Don’t expect too much from people to avoid disappointment; be open-minded and wait for surprises.

     

    How do I end my day?

    With a big smile as I know I did my best and a breath of prayer for His greater glory.

     

     

    DIANA SANTOS
    Director of Business Development & Client Services
    DiLeonardo International
    Dubai, UAE

    Diana Santos - Filipino in Dubai

     

    What do you do for a living?

    I’m a Business Development professional, and I’m currently the Director of Business Development and Client Services for DiLeonardo International, an interior design firm.

    I look after the business development and marketing efforts of the firm for the Middle East and South East Asia. This includes traveling for work, meeting clients, answering inquiries and providing proposals for potential interior design projects and organizing PR & marketing events.

    Though I came from a different educational background (I’m a graduate of BS Economics), my nine-year stint in the design industry has honed and educated me in this thriving sector of the Middle East. Having the business background helps as well for my day-to-day operational business development and research requirement. It’s been an interesting journey so far and I do hope to continue on for many years to come within this field.

     

    Please describe your typical working day.

    My typical day starts with checking my emails the moment I wake up to see if there are urgent matters that need to be addressed immediately. Working in a multinational company, the sense of “staying connected” is stronger because we work with different talents across the globe.

    I would then have my morning coffee and proceed with my client phone calls, researching on what’s on and what’s hot in the hotel, real estate, and design industry. Then I answer inquiries and do my proposals for potential projects. Then as soon as I find the time, I look into possible marketing and PR activities for the company. It’s an extensive scope – but I thrive and enjoy in diversity and pressure, especially when the end results are positive.

     

    Please share with us an interesting story or anecdote, anything remarkable or uplifting that has happened to you on the job.

    For any business development professional, the most uplifting moment is when you secure a commissioned project. And I had that moment a few weeks ago when we won a nice luxury resort project, and it was in my home country! The journey and the group effort that went into getting to that stage was just inspiring and the feeling of accomplishment when you’ve bagged the project is uplifting indeed! I guess you can say it’s the sense of victory that drives and motivates me to do what I do.

     

    Your message to Filipinos out there.

    Love what you do! It doesn’t matter if it’s not within your field, or not the ideal work that you would have wanted for yourself. The dedication and passion you put in to your work will reflect and eventually lead you to greater things and open up opportunities. The Filipino people are so talented and has so much to offer, and given the right frame of mind and opportunity, we can excel in whatever task we undertake.

  • Life is Art: Filipino-Belgian Painter Christian Van Maele

    Life is Art: Filipino-Belgian Painter Christian Van Maele

    Chancing Upon Filipino-Belgian Painter Christian Van Maele’s 4th Solo Exhibition in Belgium

    By Kristine Abante

    Photo credits: Mark Ganzon

     

    Christian Van Maele in Antwerp City Belgium

    Antwerp, a city known for its diamond trade, revealed to me during an unplanned visit that it was also hiding other gems like Christian Van Maele.

    It was an unusually cold summer day when we arrived at the private viewing of Filipino-Belgian painter Christian Van Maele’s solo exhibition.

     

    Christian met us at a beautifully ornate 18th century train station after he finished his shift at a nearby restaurant. From there, we navigated the eerily empty streets lit by the setting sun and headed towards an art gallery called “Life is Art.” His paintings were currently on exhibit there, and he himself invited me and my friends to a private viewing. It is not everyday that one gets invited by the artist himself to see his show, so we four Pinoy tourists from Dubai counted ourselves lucky.

     

    Turning the key of the gallery’s door, he ushered us into a doorway that led to a fascinating private world made of waking dreams and quiet, fragile reflections.

     

    THE ARTIST

     

    Filipino Belgian Painter Christian Van Maele

    Christian Van Maele was born and raised in Belgium, in a city called Tielt in West Flanders. He has a younger sister named Catherine, and they got their Filipino roots from their mother.

    He took up Fine Arts in college, and in 2010, earned his Masters degree in painting from Saint Lucas College in Antwerp.

    He currently works at a restaurant near the art gallery where he was exhibiting, a day job that he was keeping so he can pay the bills. At the same time, the job’s flexibility affords him more time to spend on pursuing his craft.

    Low-key and reserved, he coyly shared with me his inclination towards the arts, and explained why he would rather be referred to as a ‘painter’ instead of an ‘artist.’

    “I cannot say why I am an artist. Partly because I feel like an outsider, and perceiving the world as an artist helps me to better function in it. But I actually prefer telling people that I’m a painter rather than I’m an artist. The response I receive, in general, is more down-to-earth, and I like it that way.”

     

    Christian Van Maele Art Exhibit

    Inspired by the works of Abstract Expressionists such as Clyfford Still, Christian is fascinated by the vibrancy, aura, and storytelling abilities of Abstract Expressionism.

    “It’s like when you’re looking at the clouds and they affect your imagination. It’s about finding something, or someone, valuable and bringing that experience into your own private world. Or, maybe it’s the exact opposite, like when you experience life as a hollow walkthrough.”

    “I exclusively do oil paintings because I like the idea of playing with its inherent cultural background and harnessing its power in creating a dialogue. I actually sit on the canvas—this allows me to merge myself with the medium. When I paint, it’s like I don’t have skin. I am both methodical and trusting of my feelings.”

     

    THE PROCESS

     

    Better Than Heaven

    The exhibit, called ‘Better Than Heaven,’ is Christian’s fourth solo exhibition.

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    It all started in 2011 when he replied to an ad about an art program opening in Brussels. That same year, he had his first solo exhibition in CC Strombeek in Grimbergen entitled, ‘Extramuros (Are you a dreamer or part of the dream?)’.

    The following year, he had another solo show called ’Extramuros (Field recordings)’ which was held in Wijkbureau Mannenstraat, Leuven.

    His third one, called ‘Cavities,’ was held in Life is Art, the same gallery where he took us to see ‘Better Than Heaven.’

    “When I learned that I was invited to do the new show, I had about eight months to prepare. I was interested in letting the first selection of art pieces come to me as organically as possible, and I employed the same kind of strategy that I use when I paint: I conceptualize the art space as a soon-to-be painted surface.”

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    “The first paintings that were chosen to be included in the show (‘Bonnie Pink,’ ‘All of the Lights’ and ‘Blackpool’) eventually defined the flow of the artworks. I ended the show with a mural painting; I made it three weeks prior to the opening night.”

    Christian said that in retrospect, he realized that the works he selected to include in the exhibit tell more about the pivotal points in his artistic process and the choices he made in order to move forward.

     

    THE EXHIBIT

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    Moving through the gallery, one could sense that his paintings evoked a guarded vulnerability. Some of them seem too personal, but at the same time, they were also universal. Relatable ideas were portrayed, like love.

    “My paintings have to do with falling in and out of love. Many of my new paintings from this year, I have yet to put up on my blog because they are just too personal. Therefore, I am obligated to seek out a different approach in order for me to be okay with making these works available to the public.”

    Unlike other artists who, either consciously or unconsciously, evoke some kind of affinity to their national identity, Christian does not consider his artworks to be exclusively Belgian or Filipino, nor European or Asian.

    “To be honest, I don’t think about the audience. It’s all about working from feeling. In my case, identifying as a citizen of a particular country is irrelevant.”

    Christian Van Maele Used to Be the One

    There was a small painting in the exhibit that has grown on me; it was called ‘I Used to Be the One.’ It depicts an underworld of large walls lit up by candles, and in the middle, stands a solitary lonely soul. It was very heavy, the brushstrokes especially, and the colors have a poisonous quality to them. And the way the piece faced the entire exhibit brought a certain wholeness to it. It completely caught me off guard. In the end, I realized that the smallest painting in the exhibit was also the most powerful.

     

    SUPERHERO DREAMS

     

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    You can say that his self-awareness and grounded sensitivity that were honed by daily struggles with the mundane made Christian’s artworks unique and intensely appealing.

    Christian narrated how he once liberated mandatory uniforms made from paper hats by turning them into art pieces that, if pieced together, could make for a graphic novel.

    “The restaurant where I work regularly gets inspected on hygiene, which is normal. But a year ago, it was proposed that all employees had to wear disposable paper hats, which arguably isn’t necessary for the work that I do, which is doing the dishes and taking care of the tables and coffee machines. Regardless, I went with it for four months. And almost immediately after being issued the paper hats, I started drawing on them using a ballpoint pen. I thought it was a creative way of showing some of my interests. Having to deal with a company uniform, you would consciously want to make your individuality noticeable. I eventually dedicated a blog to those drawings.”

    Christian told me about the importance of hard work and self-belief in pursuing a craft.

    “As a painter, I act on dreams. But above all, it takes a lot of believing to truly paint. I imagine the painter as a superhero, a person who stands for love, and at the same time, does not belong to anyone.”

    Indeed, his daily alter ego reminds me of superheroes: the double life they live, and how they are often characterized by a sense of both wonder and isolation, a theme that is prevalent in a lot of Christian’s paintings.

    I left the gallery with a sense of wonder, because, surprisingly, in the middle of many valuable pieces, I discovered a hidden, priceless gem.

     

    Follow Christian Van Maele on his blog to see more of his works : https://casmo28.wordpress.com or check out the exhibit at http://www.lifeisart.be/christian-van-maele/

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