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  • Pinoy Global Entrepreneurship: Diosdado Banatao Puts the High in Tech

    Filipino innovator, engineer and entrepreneur Diosdado Banatao

    Twenty years from now, the way we see, move and work in this world may be vastly different from the way we do today mostly due to a couple of significant advances in PC technology invented by a Filipino. Carissa Villacorta fires up a conversation with Filipino engineer, innovator and entrepreneur Diosdado P. Banatao.

    Today, in 2012, computers are smaller, GPS gives you directions and apart from having telephones you can easily carry, you could actually see the people you’re talking to on the phone. The list of things that we thought were impossible then but are possible now, is endless.

    Filipino technopreneur Diosdado Banatao is credited with architectural and design innovations in personal computers that made these innovations possible.  Many of the components that comprise the modern personal computer (chip sets, graphics acceleration technology, high-speed bus) originate from designs he pioneered and IT companies he founded, built, took to IPO and later sold to larger firms like Intel.

    “I’d say that at least 30% of each computer in the world today has got a Banatao (invention) in it,” said Winston Damarillo, a young Filipino technopreneur who has worked at Intel.  “The technologies he invented, and the companies he founded, make up today’s (indispensable) personal computer.” In other words, Banatao has made the computer lighter, faster, less expensive, more fun and easier to use.

    After founding and growing his own companies through the support of venture capitalists, Dado became a venture capitalist himself, currently supporting the work of 22 smaller and promising start-ups. “They send a business plan to the Tallwood partners, and if they like what they see, they ask the business owners to present,” said Maria Banatao of the first steps of the funding process at Tallwood VC.  But they go beyond existing companies too. Such a visionary Dado is, that when he thinks of an idea, he forms a company to build it.

    In the past years he was talking about cloud computing and other things well advanced of our age and understanding. “Even the GPS system started in the Banatao kitchen,” said the Mrs. who cooks in the kitchen. Apparently, the chip in most personal navigation devices and cars that locates everything on the planet was also simmered in the company of the Banataos. Today, Dado’s ideas and plans for the future may sound as highfalutin as it did when he told his wife that in the “future,” the gigantic computers that filled up a room would become very handy. For sure, when these other ideas become actual products in our hands, we will again be awed by technology.

    Dado and Maria by Monica Simoes

    These ideas, which later became indispensible inventions, are the products of critical thinking that is formed in school. Dado and Maria truly believe that education is the key out of poverty into economic empowerment, and national development. And so, they have many other scholarship funds that have supported families with less able means. In Iguig, Cagayan Valley, Dado’s hometown for example, there is the Salvador and Rosita Banatao Family Foundation, named after Dado’s parents, that supports farmers in sending their kids to high school, and then hopefully, also send them to the University of the Philippines.

    In his time, Dado was only one of two out of 32 graduates of Iguig’s Malabbac Elementary School, to go on to high school. But because his father and mother valued education, “Tatang” worked abroad, in Guam, for eight years to be able to send Dado and his three siblings to high school and college.  Their efforts would not go to waste when Dado would top his class in grade school and graduate with honors from Ateneo de Tuguegarao where he went for high school. His class was the second to the last graduating batch of Ateneo because the school closed after 17 years. But despite the short stay of Jesuits in Tuguegarao, Dado says, Ateneo teachers taught him how to think.

    It is this kind of thinking that Dado would like to instill in other kids. A Jesuit mentor suggested he take up Engineering, while a professor at Mapua suggested he apply to a job in Boeing in America. His father’s hard work brought him to Mapua Institute of Technology where he graduated Cum Laude, and later on, he applied to Stanford University, where he defined his own course in solid state circuits and computer architecture. This course is offered at Stanford and other universities up to this day.  “There are many other kids that did not get the help, never had the opportunity or whose parents just did not have the means,” he said. And Dado and Maria want to find them.

    For the coming school year this 2012, with the help of partner institutions, the Philippine Development Foundation  (PhilDev) is awarding 151 students top education funding for five consecutive years – including provisions for living expenses, stipend, housing and transportation, plus mentorship, summer internships and guaranteed employment. Students are also guaranteed to establish well-rounded personalities with social activities, like annual camps and retreats, and a pay-it-forward practice where they are required to repay the scholarship over time, to make the SuperFund Scholarships self-sustaining, and to instill a value system for the scholars to spread good will.

    PhilDev Board Meeting in New York City

    Dado and Maria also have a scholarship fund in the United States where they help Filipino Americans go to college and major in science and engineering. They have been awarding these scholarships through the Asian Pacific Fund for 11 years now. Of the fund, Dado says, “Maria and I hope that our scholarship grants inspire students to dream big and to make the sacrifices needed to continue their education so they can fully contribute to society and make their dreams a reality,” said Dado. “Having grown up in a rural area of the Philippines, my background has made me passionate about education. I know how education can transform lives, because it transformed mine.”

    Dado knows that the transfer of technology and knowledge sharing can also multiply if they support teachers. So every year, they grant a professor in Science and Technology a six-month to one year Fellowship Program at the University of California in Berkeley where they are able to learn first-hand the newest discoveries and technologies, in the hopes of bringing them back and sharing them in the homeland.

    Carrying on the family tradition, sons Rey and Desiare are both involved in science and technology fields. They are encouraged by their father and mother to first pursue education (both sons and a daughter, Tala, have pursued studies beyond college), second establish a business, and finally, to find their way home to help the Philippines.

    As if his three kids, seven grandchildren and growing family aren’t enough, Dado also watches over twenty two investments, sits on the board of three non-profits, leads a public company and tends to one magical garden at home. Dado has also taken care of hundreds of “adopted” sons and daughters whom he’s taken the responsibility of sending to school, because “there are so many parents who just don’t have the means.”  Meanwhile, his wife, Maria is a great partner because she is a trained educational psychologist, who for fifteen years, helped disadvantaged community college students train for and find jobs.

    With this perfect combination of a couple in the ways they work and give, Dado’s question to Maria when they were just starting out can also be posed to their many scholars: “What do you want me to be? A scientist? An engineer? Or a millionaire?”

    With Dado Banatao’s leadership and PhilDev’s programs, any, or all of the above could soon be their answer.

    The SuperFund Scholarship Requirements and Application Process are available on www.phildev.org.  

    Dado and Maria Banatao with President Noynoy Aquino 2010

     

     

  • Filipino Australia: My Pinoy Life in Sydney

    Filipino Australia: My Pinoy Life in Sydney

    Filipino Australia: My Pinoy Life in Sydney

     

    ROBERT  MONICO GUALBERTO JR

    Since when have you been living there?

    I arrived here in October 2011. It’s been more than half a year now, but for me, it already feels like forever.

    Can you briefly recount briefly why you moved there?

    The primary reason why I moved to Sydney is to study Culinary Arts at Le Cordon Bleu (LCB). I chose Australia because this is the only branch of LCB that offers industry placement, which is similar to what they call in the Philippines as OJT or on-the-job-training. Once we are finished, we will be LCB graduates, who are renowned globally. We will also be recognized as Australian Qualified chefs.

    Tell us something about Sydney.

    Sydney is just like any other metropolitan city. Big, crowded, busy and fast-paced. So if you are used to that kind of place, then you will definitely love Sydney. There are a lot of places to visit here such as the Sydney Aquarium, Wild Life, Taronga Zoo, Blue Mountains and Three Sisters, the Opera House, Bondi Beach, Manly Beach, Harbour Bridge, Royal Botanical Garden, Hunter Valley, Darling Harbour and many more. Furthermore, if you want to party, Sydney, from what I’ve heard, is the best place to party here in Australia.

    On the other hand, if you want a more quiet life, Sydney has its suburbs that you may also want to explore.

    Sydney is also very multicultural so you’ll see different races. Actually, I find Sydney dominated by Oriental people. When I arrived here, I thought I was in Singapore, China or Taiwan because there are so many Asians.


    Just like every big city in first world countries, Sydney’s infrastructure is so impressive. I can’t complain about the railways, roads, freeways, toll, etc. Everything seems perfect.

    There’s only one thing, though, that I didn’t like about Sydney. Since it is a very big city, moving around is quite challenging especially for commuters like me. A car is certainly a necessity. The buses here have schedules so if I miss my bus then I have to wait for 30 minutes to an hour for the next one. Although trains here are amazing, I still have to catch a bus to get to the nearest station near my place. Not to mention, bus tickets are not cheap at all. It ranges from AUD$2.50-4.50. But I buy a weekly ticket for only AUD$51 that you can use on trains, ferries and buses.

    Sydney is also considered as one of the most expensive cities in the world. Although the salary here is pretty good compared to other first world countries, you won’t be able to save that much because the cost of living is very high.

    I am currently renting a very small room but this is just about 600 meters away from my school. I pay AUD$160/week and bills are not yet included. It is also close to a mall and near to bus stops.

    What do you do for a living?

    I am a full time Pastry student in Le Cordon Bleu, and I’m currently working as a Commis Chef in two different hotels owned by one company. As a student, I am only allowed to work 40 hours every two weeks while still in school. But I can work for unlimited hours during school holidays and during my industry placement.


    Working in the kitchen is really challenging. You really have to have a passion for cooking and food, because this job has so many demands. Salary is low, workload is heavy, working hours are long. You’re lucky if you get to take a break, and the heat is terrible.

    I also had my trials and was on the brink of giving up. I wasn’t expecting that this job would be that stressful. After cooking, I still have to wash the dishes and clean the kitchen. Sometimes, I also feel kind of lost and don’t know what to do especially during lunch or dinner service.   But then I realized, I wouldn’t leave my country if not for this dream. I have just started in this industry and all I need is patience and hard work to get to where I want to be.

    Is there a Filipino community there?

    Yes, there is. When I stayed with my relatives, they brought me to some Filipino gatherings or parties. I also met groups they have joined like their church choir and dance group. I met a group of Filipinos once when I played badminton in Sydney Olympic Park. They invite me every time they play but due to my busy schedule I have not been able to play with them again. I heard there was also a Filipino festival held last year wherein Filipino celebrities performed but I was still new here that time.

    Tell us about your life there

    When I first arrived, I was like a “probinsyano” coming to a big city. I was checking the big buildings and appreciating the infrastructure. Without even noticing it, I was already at my homestay and my Australian host mother greeted me. She was lovely and so was her house. I lived in that house with my host mom and her family for one month. She let me work in her café as a kitchen assistant, which then eventually helped me get experience and job offers afterwards.

    I started with Basic Cuisine and they taught us the fundamentals about meats, vegetables, stocks, sauces, and fish. I was used to cooking in my own time and enjoy preparing dishes. So the first few days in the kitchen came like a big shock to me that cooking is not at all easy. Every day became a challenge as the recipes get harder and harder.

    Now, I am studying Intermediate Patissiere and love being a Pastry Chef. I have shifted from being a Cuisine Chef because I believe that I work well as a Pastry Chef. My passion for cooking was intensified by this part of the culinary world. The end products always give me satisfaction especially if people appreciate not just the taste but also the art and effort you put in it. The plate is my canvass and my ingredients are my colors/palette. It never fails to put a smile on my face when I share the pastries I make in school with my friends and housemates and they all greet it with, “Woooohs” and then “MMMmmmmms” when they start eating it.

    I believe that LCB is giving me the best training in the world and this is preparing me to become competitive and world-class professional. I have just started my journey in becoming an excellent pastry chef. It might be a long journey but I hope it will be really sweet in the end.

    What cultural practices/behaviors have you acquired from your host country?

    In terms of cultural practices, there are a few small things like eating pies with tomato sauce, walking a lot because they don’t have tricycles here, leaving the house early and being on the bus stop 5-10 minutes before the bus arrives.

    I’ve also learned to speak the Australian way, pronouncing tomato as “to-mah-to”, asking “how you doing?” or “how you goin’?” instead of the usual “how are you?”.

    Australian culture, I think, is all about having fun. I’ve always wanted to go surfing in Bondi Beach or Manly Beach but there were numerous shark alarms. My friends have invited me to go skydiving but I am too much of a wuss. Whenever we hang out, I always try different Aussie beers as they have such a wide variety of beers. Australia is also considered as one of the top 10 wine producing countries in the world so I have also started to appreciate wine here. I was never really a wine drinker back home, because I was more of a rum, brandy, or whisky kind of  a guy.

    Your to Filipino across the globe

    As wonderful as it seems, living in another country can be really hard at the beginning. You will miss everything about home. It doesn’t mean that you’ll be miserable or unhappy but you will be aware of what it is like being on your own. You will miss the good life you left behind and start to do things you have never done before. You have to be more open-minded about other societies and cultures and their different points of view. Sometimes it will change or break your principles, but the best thing to do about it is to keep your most important values and traditions and change those that you think can be improved on.

    Give it time and you will eventually get used to your life and start enjoying being independent. You will then develop a sense of responsibility because you have no one to depend on. All you really have is yourself. It is not at all easy, but these changes are necessary to make us stronger and better individuals.

    But, at the end of it all, there’s really no place like home.

    Saludo ako sa mga Pilipinong nakikipagsapalaran sa ibang bansa. Mabuhay po kayong lahat!  

     

  • Filipino Photographers: Royce Aldrich Centeno & Rogin Quino

    Filipino Photographers: Royce Aldrich Centeno & Rogin Quino

    A platform for Filipino photographers from around the world. ROYCE ALDRICH CENTENO Royce Aldrich Centeno is a band vocalist who just started dabbling in photography because of America’s Next Top Model.  “I’ve always loved watching the show and wanted to try their photo shoots. I have no formal training in photography and post processing photos, but YouTube helped me a lot,” said Centeno. That was in 2011. Now, from watching tutorials and basic photography tips on YouTube, he moved on to experiment, taking photos of his band mates just to practice.  He also joined workshops, the most notable of all was Manny Librodo’s which  inspired him further to get into fashion photography and portraiture. “For me photography is not just about taking pictures, it’s about capturing the moment and how you look at things in a different perspective. I want to make a simple thing become a sparkling one,” said Centeno about being picture perfect.

     

      ROGIN M. QUIÑO Rogin Quiño has been into photography since college days and for the past year, has put more focus in his hobby. After reading books on digital photography and learning through on-line tutorials, Quiño practices his art by bringing along his trusted digital camera to various spots in the United Arab Emirates, capturing interesting scenes around the emirates. Quiño recently won at the Gulf News online photo-contest twice —during the month of January and April 2012. Very much inspired by these triumphs, he plans to continue his photography adventure by further enhancing his skills through training and upgrading his gadgets.  
  • Filipino Photographers: Buddy dela Cruz and Jon de Guzman Jr

    Filipino Photographers: Buddy dela Cruz and Jon de Guzman Jr

    A platform for Filipino photographers from around the world. BUDDY DELA CRUZ Buddy dela Cruz’s relationship with photography is both self-taught and self-professed. In 2002, this Office Administrator began studying basic photography on his own. A year later, he joined Lightform (LIFPG) in Dubai in 2003.  “Lightform assisted and supported me in so many ways. I believe that a photographer must have an eye for the different angles of life,” said dela Cruz. Now, he is a contributing photographer to a couple of publications, while his photography portfolio includes events, photo journalism and product photography.  Some of Buddy’s clients include Tag Huer, Beiersdorf (NIVEA), Davidoff,  UOWD, Al Hilal Bank, Estee Lauder, and Dusit Hotel. A Bulakeño who grew up in Nueva Ecija Philippines, Buddy graduated with BA degree in Marketing from Wesleyan University-Philippines in Cabanatuan City. JON DE GUZMAN JR. As an architect-interior designer in Arenco Real Estate based in Dubai, photography was a natural interest for Jon de Guzman, Jr.  “I’ve been shooting since 2009 as a hobbyist; I finished Basic and Advanced Photography at Lightform here in Dubai. After that, I found myself wanting to do more, so I started attending workshops and seminars.” From being a hobbyist, Jon now refers to himself as a serious photography enthusiast. He likes shooting people and architecture and capturing the emotions of his subject to. “Photographing people and architecture is my way of capturing memories and history,” said Jon.  
  • Relationships: Status – Single. Mother. Hopeful. It’s complicated.

     

    Dear Dr. Holmes and Mr. Baer,

     

    I am a 20-something solo mother with a young child. It has been five years since I separated from the father of my child and I just got my annulment.

    My annulment made me realize that I am finally free… free from the bad marriage and yes, finally free to start dating again.

    I have started going out with some guys, but many times I get annoyed with their stereotype of the single mom: easy, desperate for a man, among other things.

    But that’s actually the easier part of dating again. That part I can handle. It’s actually the reaction of my parents that affects me the most. They keep asking why I’m dating again: my child should be enough to fulfill me; they think I’ll just fail and get hurt again. I understand their concern, and sometimes I worry about them being right. But they don’t know how guilty it makes me feel and well – I hate to say it – how it makes me feel like a bad woman.   How should I handle this? 

    Single. Mother. Hopeful.

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    Dear Single Mother Hopeful (SMH),

    Thank you for your email which cogently explains a predicament common for many single mothers.

    The three most common issues that seem to arise in these cases all have something to do with attitude: the attitude of men they date, the attitude of their parents and, last but not least, the attitude of their children.

    You say that you can handle the men, your child is probably still too young to be a factor so that leaves your parents as the problem. Unfortunately you have told us nothing about the circumstances surrounding your separation and subsequent annulment. Is there anything you may have done in the past that gives them justification for this? While past behavior doesn’t condemn you for the rest of your life, it is often a good idea to analyze it if only to avoid repeating mistakes.

    Parents are normally against further romantic involvement if 1) they have very conservative religious views and/or 2) consider that their daughters bear significant responsibility for the failure of the marriage and/or 3) worry about their daughters’ choice of future partners. In the first case, even a church annulment seems insufficient to assuage their opposition, regardless of any beliefs that their daughters may have. In the second and third, they may think that their daughters, and any grandchildren, should simply be protected from further bad choices.

    But what about you? Your parents do not want you to risk another failed marriage and you worry that they may be right. Your parents’ opposition makes you feel guilty. You have not told us the circumstances leading up to your annulment, but if you think your parents may be right and you feel this way, it seems likely that you had a significant role in the failure of your marriage.

    I shall leave it to Dr. Holmes to consider where you go from here.

    Best of luck,

    JAF Baer

    …..

    Dear SMH:

    Thanks you very much for your letter.  What Mr. Baer wrote is absolutely right when he said that dating again after one’s separation/divorce  brings up issues that focus mainly on attitude – in particular, the attitude of men they date, the attitude of their parents and, last but not least, the attitude of their children.

    And there is a converse to that.  It is your attitude to them. Your attitude towards the men you date, the parents who raised you, and the children you care for.  Since you are most affected by your parents’ concerns, let us focus on them.

    Their attitudes are not as important as yours… at least, I sure hope not.  But whether you feel your attitudes and feelings are more important than other people’s, including those of your parents, is equally important.

    In a culture such as ours, where our parents and other older people are revered, my last statement above might incite near rebellion. However, it is time we questioned our knee jerk response to beliefs like: “Anak, maniwala ka sa akin.  Papunta ka pa eh, nakabalik na ako dyan.  Nadaanan ko na yan at alam ko ang tama at mali.

    To be sure, sometimes such statements are accurate.  But in my clinical experience, as far as objective and logical thinking clients are concerned, no one knows them better than themselves.  Another variant of that is: no one will know them better than they themselves will, once they stop listening to all the chatter of other peoples’ voices and start questioning the myths we’ve been exposed to.

    So, what’s a gal like you (and me) to do?  Actually, quite a lot.

    Like not to presume anything based simply on age.  When you think about it, the one thing you can be sure of when it comes to age is that they were conceived earlier than you.

    Thus, they are not necessarily wiser, more forward looking, better at making decisions.   They well could be, but it isn’t simply because they are older.  After all, who is a better expert on you than you yourself?   And if you’re not sure of the answer to that one, then it is time to make sure you are.

    Listen to yourself.  What sort of people are you drawn to?  When do you like yourself most? What are you capable of?  What do you need to do to stand on your own two feet? Whose support can you not live without?

    In answer to that last question, I sure hope it is not someone who will stoop to emotional blackmail.  Especially if he’s/they’re capable of rationalizing withdrawing his/their withdrawal of love towards you as helping you “come to your senses.”

    A lot depends on your attitude towards yourself.

    Ideally, your self-concept is positive, based on the realization that you are not only intelligent and rational, but also kind and responsive to others’ needs.  Ideally, you know you are capable of taking care of yourselves.

    Studies consistently show that the most important factor determining what we think of ourselves is our upbringing.

    So… when analyzing why you’re incapable of doing what your peers seem to be doing so easily (like dating someone else after a marriage ends and not feeling guilty about it), be ruthlessly honest and see whether this is based on fact or merely a repeat of what others told you while you were growing up.

    It is your self-concept that determines whether you can accept yourself as you are: acknowledge your needs (and not what your parents insist you need — i.e., being a good mother and “repenting” for your mistakes forever)

    The good news is, your self-concept is not writ in stone.  It can change.  Yes, yes, even if you have to learn to ignore voices you have listened to the first twenty-something years of your life. Yes, yes, even if you have to disagree with negative judgments of yourself.  This is particularly difficult if you absorbed these judgments when still too young to analyze their veracity and fairness.

    Thus, be gentle — but ruthlessly honest — when answering the following questions: Do you deserve a second chance? If you tend to be harsh towards yourself, then put it another way: If someone makes a mistake, is he doomed forever?  If he will sincerely try to be better next time, does he not deserve a second chance?   If you think this person deserves this, why not you?

    Finally, remember one of the best lines in Desiderata:  “You are a child of the universe: no less than the trees and the stars.  And whether or not it is clear to you, no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should.”

    Part of that unfolding universe is meeting men, big and small, short and tall, suave and nerdy. Yet another part is dating a few, making some mistakes, but getting up and then dating some more!

    All the best,

    MG Holmes

  • Filipino Photographers – Alex Callueng & Darryl Wayne Espiritu

    Filipino Photographers – Alex Callueng & Darryl Wayne Espiritu

    A platform for Filipino photographers from around the world. ALEX CALLUENG Fleet Manager and ramp model Alex Callueng says that his preference for people and fashion as photography subjects comes naturally to him – “I like beauty.  I like how the dress flows freely, the movement, the aura. I like it so much that I can smell it from afar.” More adept at sports than arts he took up photography out of curiosity in 2006.  Alex considers himself mostly self-taught.  His interest in photography grew and his skills enriched through research, shared learnings from other more seasoned photographers, as well as constantly practicing through shoots.  He also attends workshops. Alex says he’s mostly drawn to the images of world renowned photographers Patrick DeMarchelier and Paolo Roversi. “I always like timeless photos taken in black and white. I can feel the emotions in them.”   DARRYL WAYNE ESPIRITU Darryl Wayne Espiritu is very serious about his passion for photography. So much so that he is presently taking an online course, Complete Professional Course in Photography, at the New York Institute of Photography. A graduate of Bachelor of Science in Radiologic Technology, Darryl shares that he was instantly smitten since he purchased his first DLSR camera in 2009 for the sheer purpose of documenting his stay in the emirates.  Little by little, Darryl recounts that he fell in love with the art and hasn’t stopped clicking the shutter of his camera ever since. Darryl says he enjoys all forms of photography, whether it be portraiture, landscape photography, photo journalism, fashion and even macro photography.  
  • WOS 2012: Joy – Rowena Gungon Niduaza, A Voice for Gratitude

    Story by Lalaine Chu-Benitez

    Photography: Eros Goze

    Hair and Make-Up: Frankie Melendez

     

    Rowena Gungon Niduaza brought pride to the Filipino community when she won the Toastmaster Competition in the UAE in 2005. That win took her to Jordan where she competed with winners from all over the Middle East.  There, she ultimately took the top prize, and became the first Middle East representative to the 2005 Toastmasters International Convention for World Championship in Public Speaking in Toronto, Canada.

    That feat seems significant enough.  In reality, however, what’s even more significant was Rowena’s triumph on another level – how her win allowed her to keep a sacred promise and mend old wounds with her family.

    Rowena had a flourishing career as a design and retail professional in the emirates. Just like most career women, she was consumed by a demanding job, while juggling motherhood, her work taking much of her time from her family, especially in lieu of frequent travels.  She was stopped in her tracks when she was suddenly diagnosed with ovarian cancer in 1995.  Rowena and her husband were devastated. She shares, “I prayed as I’ve never prayed before. I asked for another chance in life – to live a life more meaningful and to live with a purpose. That moment made me realize how lucky I was for having such a loving husband, wonderful kids and a beautiful life. I cried but then I thanked God for all that He had given me. Everything, including my cancer.

    Ironically, going through that difficult period, turned into a breakthrough for her. Suddenly, she was forced to look at life differently and her priorities appeared clearer.  “I realized then that the substance of life is not about [work] success, but about the little things you see every day.”

    Around the same time Rowena’s father, who was estranged from the family, died all alone in the Philippines. The loss was a deep source of regret for Rowena, and it created resentment from her dad’s family.

    Come her day of surgery, little did Rowena know that she was fated to experience her very own miracle. After several tests at various hospitals confirming her illness, for some reason the doctors were not able to find any cancer cells and she was declared well.

    Furthermore, having been told by doctors that her ovaries have been totally damaged, she was amazed that she became pregnant with her third child after five years. Rowena declares, “A thankful heart had not only healed my cancer but had also given me another gift, another life.”  

    Ecstatic that she was given a new lease on life, Rowena recounted, “I made a promise to God to share my story and His message of love. My only request from Him was to bring me where He wanted me to share that story.”

    As though it were a part of a grand plan, Rowena’s opportunity to fulfill that promise came when she got into the Toastmaster championships.  Her speeches in Jordan, entitled, “Why” and “Two Words” chronicled her journey through cancer and the unfolding of blessings and gratefulness she experienced in the process.  Her words resonated so much with the audience that many wept.

    The fact that a Filipina claimed the top award, in a place where Filipinas were greatly looked down upon, made the moment even more meaningful.  “I stood there as a Filipina in a place where our women were referred to as ‘kamsa-kamsa’ [meaning five-five, it is a derogatory term to mean ‘cheap’ – Ed]. It gave me tremendous satisfaction to hold my head up high and see that everybody was applauding a Filipina.”

    As she accepted her award, Rowena touched her locket which contained her father’s ashes and silently promised him that her speech at the World Championship in Public Speaking would be for him.

    She didn’t win the competition, but her speech “My Father” gave her the chance to say things that were not said while her father was still alive and be heard by relatives who attended the event. Rowena emerged winning so much more – reconciliation with her family.

    She said, “All this time in these competitions, I never really hoped to win.  I went there to fulfill my promise – to share God’s work and mend ties with my family. And thank God that He gave me a way.”

    These days, Rowena makes it a point to celebrate life each day, focusing on her family and making sure that they constantly feel her love.

    The specter of cancer has revisited her once again, but Rowena who participates in a cancer support group, will not let it bring her down.  She says thoughtfully, “For me, having the cancer was an advantage.  I was given a warning. I was able to prepare myself and my loved ones and be conscious enough to live right. All of us are going to die eventually and that can happen anytime without us knowing.”

    More than anything else, she’s gained, is the gift of a deeper spiritual understanding which she shares with anybody who would care to listen. “Believe that there’s always a reason, a meaning for everything… it’s just like when the wind blows…we can’t see but we can feel it.

     

     

  • WOS 2012: Love for Country – Marietta Morada, The True “Iskolar ng Bayan”

    Story by: Toni Loyola

    Photography: Eros Goze

    Hair and Make-Up: Frankie Melendez

     

    Her gift of wisdom helped her rise beyond the status she was born with. Not one to be hampered by circumstances, Marietta Morada used her knowledge to serve and give back to the Philippine government and Filipino community here in the UAE, proving very well that other than being gifted with superior intellect, she is also blessed with a good heart.

    Marietta “Ayet” Morada’s story is perhaps a common one. Born a farmer’s daughter, Ayet had to weave ‘buntal’ hats so they could put food on the table. Some of her siblings (a total of six) even had to work as helpers and seamstresses. But this poor family was gifted with a child with remarkable intelligence, something Marietta said, she got from her father.

    Excelling in academics opened many doors and opportunities for Marietta. In 1964, she was awarded a full scholarship to attend the Philippine Science High School in Quezon City.  Known for its rigorous curriculum, studying at PSci meant that academic excellence was not only expected, it was demanded of it students.

    For Ayet, it provided to be a conducive environment where excelled even more.

    Graduating from PSci, Ayet became a full scholar at the University of the Philippines where she studied Mathematics. With her passion for knowledge and impressive credentials, many more doors opened for Ayet; this time to lucrative positions in the corporate world.

    Instead of joining the private sector, Ayet decided to take a job at the Philippine National Statistics Office (NSO) in order for her to pay back the government that gave her the opportunity to finish her studies.

    A big fan of numbers and having the knack for digging up and managing data, Marietta joined the said government agency as a statistician. There at the NSO, Marietta’s career flourished fuelled by her unquenchable thirst for information and knowledge. There, she also met Hector, who shared the same interest, and later became her husband.

    Throughout her career, Ayet would be invited by multinational corporations and major conglomerates to join their ranks, but Ayet politely declined each time.   It was not a high profile corporate career she aspired for, but to give back in the Filipino tradition of “pagtanaw ng utang na loob”. To Ayet, being an Iskolar ng Bayan (a name given to all UP students because their tuition fees are subsidized by the government) had a deeper meaning and significance.

    “I would not have been able to study if not for the help of our government. It was my time to give back.”

    Marietta came to a crossroad when her husband, Hector received and decided to take a job offer in Dubai. After almost thirty years of serving the government, Ayet finally bid goodbye to the NSO. It was a fulfilling career, but she knew that in order for them to pursue their personal interests, it was time to leave Manila for Dubai.

    Here in the land of gold, Marietta joined the Dubai Chamber of Commerce and Industry. Back in 2003, when she started with the organization as researcher, she was the sole Filipino working there.  Combining talents and dedication to her job, she has risen over the years and now holds the manager position at the Data Management Center.  She has become to her colleagues an example of a true talented, respectable and hard working Filipina. Now, the 61-year old diminutive and young-looking Marietta is still an active contributor to the attainment of the objectives of the organization.

    Career achievements and accolades never made Ayet forget to look back to the chances she was given and the doors that were opened for her through her education. She was always mindful of looking for ways to continue being of service to the Philippines.

    In 2004 Ayet and Hector joined the University of the Philippines Alumni Association (UPAA) UAE chapter and became instrumental in helping put together the organization’s constitution and by-laws, as well as supporting the club’s objective of providing scholarships to deserving underprivileged youth, and facilitating workshops and training for Filipino youth in the emirates.

    The couple also serves as informal advisers to the FILCOM, the umbrella organization of the Filipino associations in Dubai and the Northern Emirates.

    Currently, the couple is also exploring projects with the Philippine Regulatory Commission (PRC) to bring licensing exams to Filipinos in the UAE and hopefully around the world.  In the future, she dreams of establishing a Filipino club for women where Filipinas can help each other and discuss issues.

    Ayet’s life and career is testament to the fact that intelligence doesn’t diminish when shared. Rather, it is multiplied a thousand fold as it opens opportunities for others who, like Ayet, chose to give back by paying it forward.

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

  • WOS 2012: Ambition – Engr. Emelyn Martinez – Brilliant, Young & Unstoppable

    Story by: Lalaine Chu-Benitez

    Photography by: Eros Goze

    Hair and Make-Up: Ginno Alducente

     

    Engr. Emelyn Martinez cuts the picture of a respectable, well put together, progressive female professional, thriving in the male dominated field of construction. At just 34 years old, Emelyn has managed to excel in a highly competitive business area which, at times is “color and gender sensitive.”

    Emelyn works as a Managing Consultant at Hill International’s Dubai, a claims group handling contractual disputes and arbitration proceedings in the sector. She’s worked her way up in the UAE, from being the Head of Planning at the Makati Development Corporation, to serving as planning consultant and then manager at several other companies, including one of the region’s biggest construction firms.

    Equally significant, Emelyn was also the former President of the Association for the Advancement of Cost Engineers International (AACEI)-UAE – which she has grown into the largest chapter in the world outside their headquarters in the USA during her tenure – and where, she is the lone woman, and the youngest member of the board of directors.

    Early in her career in the emirates, Emelyn experienced being told in job interviews that a Filipina would not be a good candidate for the job.  That didn’t faze her, however. Instead she just kept moving ahead.  One continuing source of frustration though was often being told often that she was “too young” for her work.

    Speaking about her constant push to excel, the charming Bicolana recounted, “I’ve always dreamt of making it big someday. It was hard growing up without a father; we lost him when I was 10 years old.  And it was difficult for my mom to provide for all our needs. So I’ve always had this ambition to succeed.”

    Going into construction was somewhat of a tribute to her father’s own work as a civil engineer.

    “When I was young I was often told that engineering is only for men, but I decided to make it in the field, no matter what.”

    Emelyn’s work ethic is her simple secret to success.  “I am very brave and I work hard. While most people my age would spend their free time clubbing or going to parties, I’m working and studying. Though of course, sometimes I go out with friends too.”

    Indeed, Emelyn’s hard work is evident in her exceptional credentials. She has degrees in BS Civil Engineering from Bicol University and a Masters in Engineering Management Major in Construction Management from the Pamantasan ng Lungsod ng Maynila.

    Add to that her qualifications from the Royal Chartered Institute of Surveyors, the Chartered Institute of Arbitrators, the Association for the Advancement of Cost Engineering International (AACEI), the Project Management Institute (PMI), and the Professional Regulation Commission of the Philippines, and it’s easy to see where Emelyn has invested most of her efforts.

    Currently, she is studying for a Masters in Law degree at the Robert Gordon University in Scotland.

    Emelyn reinforces the adage that first impressions always count, saying that she makes it a point to establish her professionalism to make sure that she is taken seriously.  “Apart from dressing the part, at work, I also have a totally different persona.  I am very focused and disciplined.  But of course, outside of work, I am more relaxed.”

    But even her idea of relaxation demands focus and competitiveness. Emelyn has been a marathon runner since 2008 but she candidly admitted that before that, she could not run even a 1km race straight. To Emelyn, this was again proving that anything is possible. “I ran a 42km marathon before, but I had to cut down this year since I suffered from shin splints. Hopefully, I can run my next race in April in Madrid. I am also trying to get into cycling.”

    This year, Emelyn also used her participation at the Dubai Marathon for a much greater cause than merely sports; she ran to raise money for the victims of typhoon Sendong in the Philippines and received some AED10,000 in donations within two weeks of her campaign through her charity website. “It might not be a big amount but I think it should help quite a few people back home,” Emelyn shared.

    Her little free time is spent volunteering in the community as a trainer and speaker, sharing her knowledge and experience with her peers, always making it a point to encourage, inspire and motivate other professionals to work harder for success through continuous education.

    Emelyn’s stellar achievements are proof that nobody is too young to make a mark, or too feminine to lead.

     

     

  • WOS 2012: Service – Mary Jane Tupas – A Deep Passion for Helping

    Story by Rache Hernandez

    Photographer: Johnbert N. Dacanay; Assistant Photographer: Dave A. Pongasi

    Make Up Artist :Tonirose B. Roquim

     

     

    There are events in life that mark one’s character. For some it is a time of crisis, for others it is a time of great opportunity. For nurse Mary Jane Tupas, it was the prospect of a baby being born in an airplane and the ironic life and death situation that came with it that marked her innate nature to help others. 

    She has a handful of accomplishments to her name, yet Mary Jane Tupas, refuses to take all the credit.

    “It’s not just me,” she said. “It’s every person out there, big or small, in high or low places, who take time out to help other people.”

    Indeed, helping others seems to be second nature to Mary Jane, a quality instilled in her by her parents, especially her very religious father. “Even when I was still young, my father made sure that I prayed before I went out of the house,” Mary Jane related. In this way, Mary Jane stated, her father taught her to stay close to God at all times, whether struggling with difficulties or in the midst of blessings. “My father also taught me to always do only what is good. People may not recognize the good things that one does, but God certainly sees.”

    These must have been the words that rang in Mary Jane’s ears during a flight to the Philippines, when a pregnant passenger suddenly went into labor. When the pilot announced the need for a medical professional, Mary Jane promptly volunteered herself. She adeptly examined the woman, recognizing right away that she needed IV fluids, as the woman was bleeding profusely. Unfortunately, save from some medicines, the plane had no other medical paraphernalia onboard.

    “I told the pilot that we needed to make an emergency landing. We were over India at that time,” Mary Jane said. The pilot wanted to try to land, not in India, but in Thailand, which was approximately three hours away. “I told the pilot that the woman needed medical help right away and that waiting a few more hours would put her and her baby in jeopardy,” Mary Jane explained.

    The plane landed in India, where the woman was met by an ambulance and a medical team. Meanwhile, the rest of the passengers, including Mary Jane, had to stay overnight in India. While most commended Mary Jane’s deed, some were irritated by the inconvenience of an unplanned stay in India. “It, after all, took time away from their holidays, so I understand them,” she said. “But I told them that I couldn’t just let the woman and her baby suffer, knowing that I could do something about it.”

    How could someone be so selfless and always ready to help? “It’s my passion. I do it in my daily life and in my work.” Mary Grace is currently the head of the Nursing Department of Mohammad Dossary Hospital in Al Khobar, Saudi Arabia, a reputable medical center that employs highly-qualified staff. It is a job that is fitting for someone of Mary Jane’s character, because it entails responsibilities that extend beyond work hours. “Sometimes, I would be ready to sleep when I would get a call from the hospital or someone else. They need my help so I go,” Mary Jane explained.

    Mary Jane is also the President of the OFW 5th Congress as well as the Ro Aklanon Saudi Arabia (an organization of Filipino from Aklan), both of which, under her leadership have spearheaded several public service initiatives including a seminar on “Tamang Pakikitungo sa Kapwa Manggagawa.”

    Her consistent acts of service earned Mary Jane the Blas F. Ople Award para sa Natatanging Bagong Bayani in 2007, which recognizes OFs who foster goodwill among different peoples in the world, promote the image of the Philippines and contribute to the socio-economic development of their communities and the country.

    Despite this accolade, Mary Jane is hard put to amass all the praises. In fact, the award has inspired her to do even more. “All that I am now, I owe to the community. In turn, I owe it to the community to help those who need me,” Mary Jane said.

    For those who are starting to feel a passion to help others and make life better for them, Mary Jane has these words of advice: “Do your best to love your neighbor, whether they are good to you or not. Don’t expect anything in return.”

    Mary Jane also has a lot of faith in the Filipino women, and she has this message for them: “We are all talented and smart in our own ways. So, do your best in everything that you do, whether as a mother, as a housewife, as an employee. Never let your gender get in the way. Just do what is good always, fear God and persevere. Everything else will be easy.”